Advice on Do’s And Don’ts For People With Threesome Lifestyle

Do not force your partner into anything

You need to keep calm and do not hassle the stuff. Making hurry often leads to mess. Be patient while indulging in any act. Every person has his/her own choices and fetishes, but make sure not to force your partner or partners into doing any thing. This often frustrates him/her leading to conflict and total failure.

Do divide time equally

What we often ignore when indulging in threesome, or where swinging partner invites a third person, is division of time for every person. To ensure no one among the threesome is ignored, division of time among three is important so that each one can adequately participate with each other.

Play some appropriate music to spice up the situation

One of the most crucial things to do is spice up the ambience and raise the momentum. This can only be catalysed by some raunchy and romantic music. Take suggestions with your partners and choose an appropriate song that may turn up the heat of the moment.

Listen to each other and co-ordinate properly

Listen in threesome is another skill every party needs to adapt. It is not always about yourself but three people in threesome. And each one has equal right to participate. Coordination is another major challenge in threesome sex. If you and the other two’s actions will not be in sync but messed up and panicked, situation will get worse. For effective coordination, communication is necessary. And listening to what the other partners want is necessary so that “pleasurable things” remain under control.

Do not be rude, unless your partner likes it

Unless your partner is pretty submissive, who loves being dominated and behaving oddly, you dare not to be rude to your partners. Needless to say this is significantly a major turn off in bed that may guide your relationship towards unending conflicts.

Protection is must when you are indulging with a stranger

Needless to mention this one, you can never blindly trust a stranger in 3 way. To some extend, precautions are to be always taken. There is a lot chance of STDs to happen when a person indulge with a stranger. Protection is always strictly recommended.

Give your partner proper attention

Do not make your partner feel leave out. Especially when you are a swinging couple and indulge with a single male or female, just do not get too carried away with the third person such that you forget your real partner. Give him/her proper attention and involvement.

know adequate about the third partner

Before choosing a partner, it is very important to know adequate about him/her. If you are meeting him/her in swinger parties then give him/her some time. Strike up a good conversation and know much about him. If you meet through a dating app like tinder for threesomes, you need read out profile information to know his/her likings and dislikings.

Avoid showing any signs of nervousness

This one is basic. Keep your confidence high, because mental state of mind largely affects your performance in threesome.